The Dangers of Divorce

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In a more liberal culture, do you feel like being divorced is stigmatized? Or do you feel that that's sort of a thing of the past? Both, I think. Certainly when it was coming up and in a way, it's sort of funny way. And part of it has to do with what you're saying about it feeling like in a way,. Like everyone's like, yeah, of course it's common. It's totally common. But another thing that is really common among people in this club are feelings of enormous shame and humiliation and embarrassment.

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Why is most communication advice so fluffy? How can we actually communicate better? Why do we sometimes fail to say what we mean or what needs to be said? What counts as "nonviolent" communication? To what extent is avoidance of conflict and confrontation a result of agreeableness versus cowardice? What aspects of divorce aren't talked about enough?

Misha Glouberman helps people communicate and connect better. He teaches a course called How to Talk to People About Things, online and in person, that helps people get better outcomes in their most important conversations at work and at home. He is an expert facilitator and designer of online and in-person events. He hosts the Trampoline Hall Lectures in Toronto, and is the co-author, with Sheila Heti, of The Chairs Are Where The People Go. He does lots of online events, so join his email list to learn more about them.

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