Start by joining is probably the single most useful phrase that i have ever learned in my life. If you are trying to figure out how to support other people, if you get a partner who's on the sensitive side for whatever reason, if you just want to be a better relater. Start with emotional relationship. Don't just do it to check the box. Got to hang out for a minute. And then you could go into problem solving. But if you start with problem solving, as i have painfully learned in his life, you are doomed to failure. It gives me more capacity to sit with other people in their hurt,. I've gone through and this is kind of linking back to

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