Defining parasocial relationships and limits

In this episode of The Materialist, host Marc Bridge, Founder + CEO of At Present, sits down with stylist, writer, and content creator Heather Hurst (@Pigmamiii).

Heather shares her fascinating journey from a background in public health and lab work to becoming a curator of style and self-expression. They explore the interplay between permanence and ephemerality, the evolution of personal collections, and the deeper meanings behind the things we choose to adorn ourselves with.

Heather discusses her passion for collecting—from vintage clothing and jewelry to unexpected treasures found at estate sales and auctions. She highlights some of her favorite designers and artists, including:

* James Banks Design, whose intricate wooden jewelry boxes have left a lasting impression.

* Vadis Turner, a Nashville-based sculptor known for her unique, textural artworks.

* Wretched Flowers, who creates stunning chainmail curtains blending delicacy with strength.

* Eli Birch, a Connecticut-based jeweler whose organic, hand-hammered designs stand out for their simplicity and charm.

* Fran Hosken, a radical feminist and industrial designer known for her minimalist copper jewelry inspired by Bauhaus principles.

* Monbouquette Jewelry, a playful brand that reimagines jewelry with interactive designs like their signature spinning ring.

Heather also reflects on her ever-evolving relationship with objects, discussing the emotional connection to a long-lost turquoise ring, the sensory experience of wearing certain pieces, and the unexpected reactions her style choices provoke—such as the attention-grabbing mohair coat and a sculptural Bottega Veneta bag.

Other notable mentions in the episode include:

* Doug Wheeler’s “Day, Night, Day” exhibit at David Zwirner Gallery, an immersive light and space installation.

* Indyx App, a digital closet tool that offers a fresh perspective on personal style and collection tracking.

* Brian Eno, whose creative philosophies continue to inspire Heather’s approach to collecting and curating.

* Jenny Holzer’s famous quote, “Protect me from what I want,” which resonates with Heather’s exploration of consumer culture.

Tune in for a thoughtful conversation about collecting with intention, embracing change, and finding beauty in the unexpected.

Where to Find Heather:

* Instagram: @Pigmamiii

* Substack: Pig Pen – a deep dive into fashion, collecting, and cultural musings.

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