Sally Kohn: You're as happy as you'r least happy, kit. That is such good life advice. I the other thing i realized watching you guys is that you put the time in early, it pays dividends later. If you tink that by the time they get te nators, if you are just going to work all the time inthe when they're thirteen, you're going to check in, they want anything to do with you. And so, um, i think that's how i've always go o it....