The Importance of Point Form in Step Work

On page 65, on our grudgeless, we set opposite. And to me, that sounds like the instruction. I'm a big believer in point form. We're just trying to get to causes and conditions. So this is what was affected by this resentment: Our self-esteem. Then it says, our security. Did this resentment make me feel physically unsafe? Or was I physically unsafe as a result of what happened?