The Power of Accepting Threats

I think often we're hesitant to even pull on the thread because if we do that with another guy and he starts revealing or sharing himself, then we're like, oh, fuck, now what am I going to now? So there's a maybe a hesitation on our part to go there because we don't want to go there ourselves. If you're unwilling to do that, then it's, or if you're afraid of doing that, then the thing that helps me is whenever I like sometimes I'm watching YouTube and I see a podcast with two guys, I respect. And one of them will say something that I think, oh, he didn't need to reveal that. He didn