I think it's this kind of thing where, like, we are all desperate for validation around this thing. And when we don't get the very specific kind of constant, uninterrupted validation that we expect, we become kind of fucking dicks about it. I also do think i have had disproportionately weigh more conversations about friend's negative body image than my thinner friends have with the same people. Ultimately, there are a million places in society where you can talk about the 15 pounds you really want to lose.