The Power of Negative Pronouns

Narcissists engage in a smear campaign for two reasons the first is that he is jealous of you. The narcissist views himself as so broken and terrible that the very fact a person could love him must mean something is very wrong with that person. They just want to spread the misery even to the people who love them especially to those who love them. How do you counteract a smear campaign? Try reverse the pronouns whatever the narcissist is saying about you is what is actually true about himself or what he fears is true about himself. You are abusive means i'm abusive,  you are a bad parent means i am a bad parent but your kids love me more means the kids love