Calvin Rosser: People say that finding a life partner is one of the most important decisions you can make yet without judgment. There are a lot of single people out there who don't want to be single and I think your friend who I've also met is one of those people who quite frankly when we've talked to him about what he's looking for, maybe his bar is too high. Steph Smith: Cal if you were to guess how likely is it to find this woman who meets all of those categories which again some of them are really broad like 411 to be. It's a pretty wide range, not overweight, and one more, which is earning at least $150,000