I really do get the sense that like people have not tried to understand you. And so I'm hearing a lot of sort of situations where maybe you got punished for stuff that really wasn't your fault or that they didn't care about it. Is that fair to say? Yeah that's pretty accurate yeah nobody cared to listen to me when I was younger. It took six years before I finally found someone who diagnosed my Asperger's and helped me figure out how to deal with all these different things.