In this episode, we talk about how hard it is for her as she is wondering: is he doing recovery work? Or not?
Some of the things women wonder about:
- is he cheating on me today?
- what if he is just checking the box?
- is he really living with integrity when I am not around?
- is he actually applying what we are investing time and money to learn?
- what is he doing when he isn’t with me?
- is he standing up for me and honoring me when he is with our children?
- the list goes on… it’s a LOT to carry
Ladies - I encourage you to journal out: what is weighing on your mind as far as what you are wondering about when it comes to his recovery.
We then talk about: what can he do to help with this wondering. It comes down to transferring the burden. Jason gives four strategies men can use to transfer the burden onto him. I also mention some strategies she can use to free herself from this wondering.
We are so glad YOU are here, thanks for joining us!
