Deeper Dating Podcast

Ken: I would go through this wild thing where I'd be like crazy in love with him. Let's get married. And then I'd be, oh, the wave is back. And in fact, I'm really scared because I feel absolutely nothing. It was just my process of allowing someone in. If I didn't know these skills and have those tools, I would not have my family. So please do not accept the shape and easy answer of, oh, it's the ick. Assume it's the wave of distancing. And ride that wave and the waves that I'm describing. You will find something almost definitely that is amazing that happens," he says.