How Do I Be Kind to My Future Self?

The big picture thing that els to think of your bonny, and you've illustrated some of the tactics beautifully on this, is, how do i be kind to my future self? We want to potentially include the actual address for the location. A lot of calendarin systems will alert you when you should leave wherever you are in order to get there on time. And again, i wish i could put a little buffer in there and be like, i'd like to get there x number of minutes, but i haven't seen that yet.