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#150 Male Sexuality: Fluidity, Fear, & Fantasies (with Finn Deerhart)
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser
Tantric Techniques - You're Not Anti Porn
I like to have a bit of a middle ground take on porn. I often give my clients a quote unquote golden rule around porn, which is use it 20% of the time that you masturbate or self pleasure. So if you're perpetuating shame by saying watching porn makes you a terrible man and you're going to ruin your relationship... shaming is only going to make the porn use worse for that particular person. The person you're ostensibly trying to help by shaming them is onlyGoing to make their behavior worse. And so many times any even let's just say even if it is presenting in a man's life in a way that is problematic in the sense that he's not making
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