The Blue Side of the Spectrum: Disorganized Attachment

We are acting out on our attachment system all the time but most of the time we're unaware and we just think it's the world acting on us. The more you understand it the better because it really actually affects the way our whole body functions including the stress level. So when you say we don't have a disorganized system why don't we start helping people understand what we mean by that in terms of how that develops as a child as an infant. Once this gets set it's very persistent. It's changeable and we've talked about that before too but it's also very persistent.