
Understanding Attachment with Bethany Saltman
Authentic Parenting
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Adult Attachment Interview - Do You Have a Parental Capacity?
Do you have a sense of why your mother or father parented the way th at they did? That is a very important question in the adult attachment interview. Can can the person have? Because this is what attachment, the attachment system, is designed to help us see ourselves. We see ourselves by our parents capacity to see themselves. And so if you have an avoid parent who doesn't have minds that, who can't feel their own feelings or see their own mind, they are not going to be mirror for you. It's a much more distancing kind of experience. So and then the preoccupied adult is, the adjectives are all over the place, filled with rage, very
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