We say things a lot like since we're going to be there we should, or what about when, or like you know what we could also do? Or like I'm like the kids just had a good time at this birthday party. Well, so I think of two other examples where we did this well and I talked about them on one of the solo episodes. Let's go out on top. We can also make it home for dinner. We have food at home, we get cooked dinner. We can have a perfectly set bedtime. Let's just do the one thing. Yes, we are trying to set our kids up for success, and set ourselves up for success."