Sally Kohn: My favorite quote from your previous book, one that I turned into a blog post was that you can't copy and paste somebody else's path to success. She says formulas for success satisfy the popular craving for heroes, but are they also mislead? Kohn: We're seeing only the survivors, not the failures who took the bullets to their engine and never returned home. The aspiring entrepreneur who moved to Silicon Valley to pursue a startup only to fail doesn't make the cover of Best Company.