The sexual revolution didn't liberate sex, it liberated pornography. Ready-made sexual fantasy appeared on every book stand and a huge industry developed. Pornography is part of the marketing of prostitution and it bleeds back into real life. We need not commercial pornography which exists to suck the money out of pockets of men but an integration of carnality in the narrative of daily life. we need to rediscover or maybe reinvent intimacy.
Hooray for porn! What would we be without it? Bored, repressed, frustrated. Porn allows the timid to indulge fantasies they’d never live out in real life and the adventurous to experiment with new forms of pleasure. Now that it has stepped down from the top shelf and waltzed across the internet we can all enjoy it. All we need to do is stop pretending it’s something dirty and come straight out and salute it. Or maybe not. Porn after all is selling a lie: that women are always eager to engage in extreme practices, that bodies are always tanned and buffed, orgasms explosive. Isn’t this a recipe for frustration and disappointment? And to attract the restless voyeur, porn is always having to up the ante – cyber-sex is getting ever more degrading and extreme. Men are finding it harder to be satisfied with their real world partners, women are feeling inadequate and pressured to live up to the cyber-competition – this is the reality of pornland. So which is it – the great liberator of the libido or a blight on...
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