There's a lot of pathological body and food shit in gay male culture. I have gay male friends who like, literally won't eat in front of somebody until the seventh or eighth date because they have all these like emotional issues around sort of, him seeing me eat is going to make him think that i'll be fat later. And we see this kind of, especially a kind of more testasteroni am places. Just say, gay men, it's okmo,. well, testasteroni is the san francisco treat sola. It stands for avoidant and restricted feeding intake disorder. This tends to happen often with younger kids, although it does happen all the way up through adult