I Want to Be the One Building the Fences Around You

I was not listening to god or anybody else on that subject. My husband actually does help me in with my chair at the table. When there's nobody there to show off for, he opens the car door for me. Why? Because he thinks i'm too feeble to open it for myself. These rules are small sacrifices. Every one of them has unselfishness behind it. How does it look when people are sitting at the table with their elbows on the table and theyare shoveling the food in, holding their forks wrong? You see somebody holding a fork like this? Does it make any difference? It does it?"