"I was used to e to y make some comments on being a pushy guy," says andrew. "Once i came here to germany and i met some other people, realized that a lot of the things that i was doing were absolutely no right?" he adds. 'If i'm with you, it's because i want to have a relationship with you as a friend'
Daniel seems to be the whole package. He’s smart, social, and has lots of friends. He even organizes a beach volleyball league in Berlin. But he can’t seem to land a date despite his best efforts. On this episode of How To!, we bring on Andrea Silenzi, dating aficionado and host of the acclaimed dating podcast Why Oh Why. She knows what it’s like to put a ton of effort into dating and not land the relationship she wants. Now married, she shares how she broke through a decade of bad dates and has some hard-earned wisdom to help Daniel, and all of us, make a move that actually works.
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