Boundaries, enabling, and family dynamics

You left your husband after an affair. Now your boyfriend wants to marry you, but you're still in love with your ex. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday:

• Want to bypss the travel banter? Skip ahead to 14 minutes and 20 seconds!
• You had an affair that ended your 13-year marriage, and now you're living with that man — but you've realized you're still in love with your ex, and your boyfriend wants to get married. Do you tell him the truth and risk losing him, or try to let go of the past?
• You inherited a house with your siblings, but your brother — who lives there rent-free — has let the insurance lapse, refuses to let you renovate, and won't allow anyone inside. You love him, but he's a diagnosed narcissist who's taking advantage of everyone. What are your options?
• You've been stringing along pig butchering scammers to waste their time and protect potential victims, but then you learned that many of them are actually human trafficking victims. Is messing with them still justified — or are you just tormenting slaves?
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• You were laid off as a federal civilian and you're wondering how to make the most of this unexpected downtime beyond networking and exercise. How do you spend it wisely without spiraling into existential dread?
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