Transformation with Lea N
Organize 365 Podcast
Navigating the Chaos of Caregiving
This chapter delves into the emotional and practical challenges faced while caregiving for aging parents during family crises. The speaker shares their personal journey of managing health, finances, and emotional well-being, emphasizing the significance of organization and support systems. Through reflections on their experiences, they highlight the transformative power of establishing structure amid overwhelming responsibilities.
In this episode, I introduce you to Lea N. who is married and has her mother living with them. Lea is a lifelong learner and had been watching some organization shows. Lea came across a few guest spots of mine on those shows. Lea really resonated with what I said and got the Sunday Basket® right away. When she had been listening to those interviews, she found herself thinking “Oh I get it and I get Lisa!” She was always organized but this gave Lea a system.
Lea’s parents are divorced. Her mom moved in and soon after got really sick with Endocarditis, which ended up being a four and a half month stay at the hospital. Lea has a successful restaurant in the L.A. area. As an entrepreneur, you wear a lot of hats. Lea would work and then head to the hospital. She runs her business off the Friday Workbox®, the two and half year planner, and rainbow tear pad. She just makes her “lesson plan” for the week and runs it without really referencing it again.
Right after her mom returned home to finish her recovery, her dad’s girlfriend passed away from the same thing her mom was recovering from. But now, she was helping her dad to sell his girlfriend’s house and get settled into a long term care facility where they could care for him and his dementia. Unfortunately he fell about a year later, broke his hip, and ultimately passed away. That is a lot for one person to manage. That is a lot of emotion for one person to process. She’s thankful she had the podcast in her ear to receive permission to feel how she felt. She was thankful for Michelle, from the Sunday Basket® club, (her other Organize 365® bestie ) for the continued guidance on the systems to maintain her organization. The color coding was a game changer for Lea.
She was proud of herself when she brought one of the binders to a Lawyer and he complimented how helpful and thorough it was. Lea credits getting those binders done to the professional paper organizers from Organize 365® because she’s an “obliger” and doesn’t want to let others down. She sees the “trickle down,” that this will happen to her boys as well and she wants to be organized for them, when the time comes. We talk about child care. We talk about self care. But we don’t talk about menopause or the period of life when you get the responsibility of your parents - eldercare. It takes a lot of time, money, and responsibility. She states it’s not easy to get organized but once you do at least you aren’t looking for “that paper.”
She feels great about all of the organizing she has done and with all of the unexpected life events that have come her way, she doesn’t know how she could have made it through without them. She’s anticipating a time when she can focus on their home with The Productive Home Solution™ program. Lea was in the middle of a home renovation and opening a second restaurant when her husband lost his job. And speaking of more unexpected life events she joked about the toll of menopause.
We talked about her desires to be even more profitable and productive with the coming of her second restaurant. And we discussed that for “busy bees”, we don’t want a vacation on the beach, we wanna be producing! I explained Dan Sullivan’s idea of “free days” where you are still productive. She’s empowered to do more because she knows she’ll never be “done”. She has peace of mind that all responsibilities are taken care of. And she’s constantly evolving.
Lea’s advice is, “Just get the Sunday Basket®. It just gets you on the right path.”
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