How to Become a Good Person in a Nested Hierarchy

You live in a nested hierarchy of these and you could think of this as your own internal patriarchy. You can come up with the definition of good if you want as long as it doesn't annoy other people too badly because they'll just get in your way. What good person is is what's good about you across all those roles so it's a higher order abstraction from something more concrete. All of a sudden it's your body because how do you play peek-a-boo with a baby you don't like?