The Importance of Taddling

If you're in the car and they're punching each other, maybe maybe you can move them around. Maybe there's no adult who gets it between them. But you have to, you can't tell them you have to stop you have to leave each other alone. Right. If they're old enough and if they're in control enough, it would make sense to try it. And it's not to keep anybody safe. It's just simply taddling. Can they give you their what would the other person side of the story be if they must express themselves? Or does that still get into judging?