As gender norms are changing within our society, each gender is having to go through this process of, like identity reformation. And so i think this is the kind of thing where you just got to think a little bit about who o you want to be. Where do you get your expectations? Do you really want to hold on to your expectations, or these fair expectations? That's half the problem with sexis in the world right now. I'm not saying men have it easier than women on a whole, on the whole, or vice versa,. Right?