Why Do You Feel That Way?

Once they have to deal with the why do you feel this way? It all falls apart. I think on a on some emotional level They recognize that what they would have to Deal with with that why question is those entrenched power dynamics and those sorts of things That's definitely true. They're unwilling to unpack right... it does make good sense to never open that bag if you can find some sort of a way to make sure that that is never the conversation Yeah distract from, yeah, so the why they know why they They're distracting from having to talk about that with other things that are external because if they admit the why they'd have to then confront the reality or they'd have