"We don't have the luxury as adults or humans or Americans or fucking anything to fix the circumstances to our liking," he says. "The better option is to build yourself into someone who can weather the storms." The more harden you are mentally, the tougher you are mentally,. the more inconvenient shit that you put yourself through to get stronger, the better you're going to be when times get good. How often do you evaluate your circle of trusted friends and those who have access to you?