How to Keep the Spirit of God in Your Life

I think we have to be careful and you know when we read in scripture that there's something called the blasphemy of the Holy Spirit. And so how we keep it from becoming subjectivism, I think in many ways is relevant to one,. How important is the topic at hand? What exactly are we talking about? Is this a church leadership issue or is this do we go to Florida or New York for vacation? There's some weightier matters to consider when people bring the spirit's involvement into it.