Is It a Free Hotel Room or a Timetable?

I think it's worth giving them a timetable when you make the offer if there's any homing and hauling just like hey I need you to let me know in like three days because if not I'm gonna get somebody else to go with me. There's a really you get to use the sentence I really need to figure this out which is a really official sounding sentence but doesn't actually imply any kind of consequences. It makes you seem desperate for like it considering the fact you're like giving someone a gift like you shouldn't have to do that. They should just be accepting it like going for it, he says.