How to Communicate Your Desires and Boundaries

On a scale of one to five how well do we do this? What with other I'm talking about with other couple I think we're pretty good. Normally it's with people that you we've played with before because you have an assumption That you're right. Well, and and the other couple's moving to you know You can't like the whole no kissing rule remember All right We were with a couple and we played with them and they had a no kissing rule And then we got back together with them and not only were they kissing they were full swapping So if you if you go into it assuming oh well last time we were with them that could have been two weeks ago two months ago