The Three Ingredients of Control

I want to talk about the three ingredients of control. When you're controlling another person or you're being controlled by another person, there are three types of control that people exercise. Number one is manipulation. We'll never have a healthy relationship as long as there's control in that relationship. And again, I want to say I was the controller early in my marriage and it ruined our marriage. There's an alpha male, there is some animal in that group of animals that is dominating the rest of mixed up for human beings. It violates us. It's always wrong, it always violates us., he says.