"There are going to be times where you can't control your emotions," he says. "And those waves of emotion will become weaker over time and that's not a bad thing." The ability to go, I am feeling this? That's a dumb feeling or an inappropriate feeling,. Or the stoics say, you got to think about how you're going to feel the morning after?" He adds: "If you act on every urge and impulse, if you allow yourself to be overwhelmed by every temptation...you're going to blow up your life"