i've worked a lot on myselfe like a personal development in the last year. And amd right now i have the feeling like i can put so much energy into relationships. But it's not only like i'm afraid that the friends will go away. So what do you think that's doing to your desperation, the neediness? It becomes bigger. Absolutely. As the need becomes bigger, the attachment becomes bigger,. You're going to send six messages because the need is that much greater. I can't afford to just send four. It needs to be five. It Needs to be six. That part of you isn't going to listen when people say 'you've got forty years to