There are so many different reasons of why we might be uncomfortable with somebody, somebody who we're in a relationship with watching porn. Like is it because your husband is watching porn where there's penetrative sex and you know that you've not been able to do that? And also asking your husband like what does he get out of porn? Yes. Why does he enjoy it? What does he like about it? I think for a lot of people, especially when it comes like video and visual porn, they're just like an aid. It's just something to help with the arousal. You may be surprised. Just because no one's talking about it doesn't mean they're not doing it
Welcome back to the Doing It agony aunts miniseries, where Hannah and her assistant Megan answer your questions with friendly advice! This week is all about feelings about porn - about your partner watching porn, examining discomfort about porn, and finding positive stories about porn. All the general narratives are either about conflict, secrecy, shame and, if you're lucky, maybe it's played for lols. But having examples of positive stories and interactions with porn can help us all build new frameworks in how we feel about it and hopefully have a positive impact on our relationships too.
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