What Grief Teaches Us About Love w/ Jule Kim | Ep 398
The Futur with Chris Do
Recording messages and preserving memories
Jule notes the value of videos and messages from her brother's partner and suggests pre-recording thoughts for loved ones.
In this episode, Chris Do sits down with coach and creator Jule Kim for a powerful and emotional discussion on grief, loss, and healing. Jule opens up about losing her brother unexpectedly and how it reshaped her understanding of family, identity, and emotional connection.
Together, they explore the cultural pressures that discourage vulnerability, the struggle to feel deeply, and how grief forces self-discovery in unexpected ways. Chris offers thoughtful reflections on empathy, boundaries, and how to truly support someone through pain.
Timestamps
(00:42) - Episode begins — why grief matters
(01:36) - Lessons learned in loss
(02:35) - Why no one talks about grief
(03:13) - Chris on family and mortality
(10:59) - How her brother’s death hit
(18:20) - Hidden trauma and autism shared
(24:33) - Organ donation process begins
(33:42) - Family conflict and decision-making
(41:43) - Legacy and meaning after loss
(43:00) - Rituals, closure, and moving on
(50:00) - Sudden emotions and healing process
(58:18) - Preparing loved ones for the future
(59:04) - Memories preserved through media
(01:10:40) - Lessons learned from loss
(01:15:25) - Acceptance and emotional growth
(01:20:12) - Depression, family history, and healing
(01:21:07) - Message of hope and help
(01:21:38) - Crisis lifeline and support call
(01:22:00) - Deep grief and full surrender
(01:25:45) - Reflections and gratitude
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Executive Coach Jule Kim : https://adviceactually.com/
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