Is It Really Irresponsible to Have a Large Wedding?

Mer Sholl: Why is it so hard for us to say big weddings are not a great idea at this point in time? She asks how selfish that you think your community and the practices in your community are more valuable than the fact that if there's just a single person at that wedding who carries te virus, you are going to infect so many more people as a result of having tendit. But also, even from the narrow view of that community itself, presumably these are people you care about, you love, you're close to, and no one stands up and says, having a large wedding at this points in time is just irresponsible. And yet it's somehow really, really hard