I Don't Kill Hate With Hate Right?

I have a big insecurity about my boobs all right like They're they're saggy. I remember this one one girl just ripped them to shreds. She was just like ill like they look disgusting and saggy Now there's a difference between replying back to someone and being like you need to stop that was hurtful. You don't kill hate with hate right? So if I see someone being really nasty, so I don't like that Like I'd rather you not defend me. But when I see someone like hey says like you to chill because that's not nice. It's something that It's unexplainable the feeling they give me and that to me is my friends As