You Find the Way You Are

I grew up around a very alternative spiritual town not too far away so those ideas were very prevalent and that's what everyone always saying oh you find the way you are. I realized okay I'm frightened of other males it's really what it comes down to the joke is they were frightened of me. So therefore I had to make myself into someone that wasn't nervous  and get to a point where I didn't feel this way when I was around one of those group of males. There's an amazing thing in the connection between our mind and our body which is very very strong for males. It's very rare that you'll find someone who's very competent with a good degree of coordination