How on earth are you ever going to win? And what does winning mean? Squashing your child into a compliance that's going to just deal with. The more you squash your child, the more passive aggressive stuff you're going to see. You can cure a lot of things than other people. They don't need to do anything when it comes to indiction. Other thing is a oftentimes parents like ther they ry, but that doesn't fix the problem. So what do you do in the situation? Start with conversation.