The Importance of Being Genuinely Loved

I've dated people for like a couple months and towards the end, you know how you like, you're like, oh, this person doesn't like me. They don't really like spending time. I think it might be like I tend to be like, okay, I'm got you got me. I like you. Let's lock this down before like probably a little too early. And then I am very busy. So scheduling things with people is hard. It's like someone who's nice to me. Somebody actively likes me. Do you think they actually don't like you? Well, I've never been in relation. When you have them, you would genuinely love them.