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Are You Trying to Fit in or Are You Wanting to Be Liked?
I think I have to push myself to have a happy medium of being open to new relationships. Bernay Brown does a really interesting distinction in Atlas of the Heart, which is one of my favorite books that she's written yet. The fitting in is like the people pleasing in like the wanting to be liked and the belonging is like you get to be exactly who you are and people want you around. There's again just a part of like the maturation is realizing that at any moment we have the power to edit to lovingly edit.