The Third Alternative - Negative Energy

Insecure people think that all reality should be amenable to their paradises. They have a high need to clone others, to mould them over into their own thinking. Sameness is not oneness. Uniformity is not unity. Unity or oneness is complementariness, not sameness. The essence of energy is to value the differences. I wonder if you would have lunch with the two of us and just watch how we talk to each other? We could even plan some recreational activities with the cousins, aunts and uncles,. which would be an added benefit. It's like trying to drive down the road with one foot on the gas and the other foot on the brake.