"We take that resentment and we shove it deep, deep, deep down inside ourselves into this black pit of our stomach," she says. "And then what happens is all of those thoughts and feelings come out in passive aggressive ways with the next person." If you want to become a better texter, don't worry about how to read a text; learn how to read your own body language rather than trying to mimic someone else's. 'If something upsets you in a text, the last thing that you want to do is take a step back'