Why Does It Matter to You to Even Win a Fight With Him?

PTSD is a psychological pattern unconsciously that's going on. Recreating his old traumas is a way to fix him. People who can't afford therapy rewrite their life stories in a way that makes sense and guide them to the right direction. That story therapy works really well too. Timothy Wilson's book is up here about this. It's really effective. Is because that's essentially what your unconscious is trying to rewrite this story and make this trauma solve this trauma. And the only way you can do it is by recreating it in the present, which is what PTSD is.