You could say it directly or you could maybe find a porn or a website or something that you can put in front of her and say, oh, you know, that's kind of hot. You have an opportunity then to kind of test the waters and see if she's like maybe a little bit open to it, right? And then you have something to stand on in order to maybe move that conversation forward and actually move to developing competence. If you're not doing this with a coach, try doing it with yourself in the mirror. Do it frequently enough that you feel confident when you say the words out loud. So much of it's just it's so much about clearing your own stuff

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