What to Do if You've Been Cheated On?

i think that metaphor of the ecosystem is an interesting one to think about with things like this, cause i think so many of us have been conditioned culturally to think about relationship problems legalistically. Once you're at the point where what matters is legalistically deciding who's right and wrong, you've kind of, you've lost the whole thing already. You're not going to win. And again, even if you're sayingike, whatever, the term cheating isn't even that useful, it's still like, well, you might be. I yoen something. Right? What can we actually do with this information now that we've talked about all this stuff?"