Is Feedback the Same as Parenting?

I think it's helpful to ask yourself, like if I'm looking to give someone feedback, are those two things true? And if not, maybe don't give it to them. If they've done work on themselves enough to A, not be totally shocked, or B, even if they are shocked, look at it as an opportunity and a trust in them that they're going to handle it. So this is like criticism in the form of parenting. What is the difference between like the parenting criticisms or the community? Because sisters talk about community criticism.