You Can Influence It, but You Can't Control It

"I feel like it kind of limits the level of honesty that, you know, if there's something I want to say, or even things that might get us in trouble," she says. "We're not strangers. We can't come in screaming at each other and then never speak to one another again." She adds: "People who do that sort of thing and say they don't regret it are either delusional or they're lying to you"